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07 May 2009 @ 06:05 pm
Why there is no equivalent of a corset for men: a theory  
(Some thoughts prompted by this blog post)

A question I have often asked, and never gotten a satisfactory answer to, is this: what can I wear to a science fiction convention that would be as sexy as a corset?

Lots of women wear corsets at conventions these days. They make nearly any woman look sexy, whether she's svelte or generously proportioned. But I'm not aware of anything equivalent for men. One answer I've gotten to this question is "a corset, duh." But I've tried male corsets and they don't do anything for me. Fundamentally I believe the problem is that they don't change my shape at all. Another answer is "a tux." I can get into that (and have), but it's not quite the same thing.

I realized the other day that the reason there's no good answer to this question arises from Western society's ideas about gender. A corset is not sexy principally because it emphasizes a woman's secondary sexual characteristics. A corset is sexy because it emphasizes the differences between a woman and a man -- where "man" should be read in the deprecated meaning of "human being." In other words, a corset emphasizes the difference between a "woman" and a "person," or between "mark" and "norm." Thus, there is no equivalent of a corset for men because there are no differences between a man and a person (societally speaking) to emphasize.

Clothing that emphasizes a man's secondary sexual characteristics can still be sexy, and appealing to individuals. But it's not "sexy" in the societally-endorsed way that a corset is.

Note that I am not endorsing this view, I'm just observing it.

Your thoughts?

David D. Levinedavidlevine on May 8th, 2009 06:21 am (UTC)
I'm not talking about the uncomfortable undergarment but the sexy outer garment seen at conventions.
lauriemannlauriemann on May 8th, 2009 10:58 am (UTC)
I know what you mean, and I stand by what I said.
David D. Levinedavidlevine on May 8th, 2009 02:05 pm (UTC)
Well, I can certainly understand your attitude. Everyone says a tux is one of the sexiest things a man can wear, and I love the reactions I get when I wear one, but boy is it uncomfortable. I'm sure a corset is worse. And don't get me started on the high heels...
Elizabeth Colemancriada on May 8th, 2009 04:20 pm (UTC)
If you get a good one, corsets can be amazingly comfortable. Not in the sprawl-on-the-couch way of course. But talk about good back support.